In this post, I take a look at men’s sexuality, prompted by reading a book by a well-known sex writer and therapist. Are men being feminized, or are we misunderstanding the nature of the repressive discourse around men’s sexuality?Read More
Oral sex? Non merci. It’s not my thing, and I’m tired of being told I’m broken because of it.Read More
Today’s question is sad, and also too common. Which makes it even sadder. A married woman wonders how to manage her feelings when her husband says he wants sex with other women.Read More
Having sex with a new partner is more likely than not to be kinda bad. But that’s normal: you don’t know each other enough yet. Taking your time is important.Read More
Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.
I believe that telling our stories is a powerful act that lets us connect to each other.
These are my stories about relationships, sex, kink, psychology, life... pretty much everything.
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