Marriage is fine if you want to enter into it, but it should not be recognized by the state nor serve as a method to access unfair benefits. Also, it’s really not fair for non-hetero, non-cis, non-monogamous people.Read More
Today’s question is sad, and also too common. Which makes it even sadder. A married woman wonders how to manage her feelings when her husband says he wants sex with other women.Read More
Romantic fantasies sound great in theory, but in practice, they can be pretty harmful, especially if you’re a woman. It’s complicated, but when you look at the research, plenty of data supports the danger of being a die-hard romantic.Read More
You don’t want to be poly? Excellent! You totally don’t have to. Really. It’s up to you.Read More
Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.
I believe that telling our stories is a powerful act that lets us connect to each other.
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