In this post, I take a look at men’s sexuality, prompted by reading a book by a well-known sex writer and therapist. Are men being feminized, or are we misunderstanding the nature of the repressive discourse around men’s sexuality?Read More
Are you flourishing, or just hanging on? Is your lack of self-care getting in the way of fulfilling intimacy with others? This book might just help you find out what you need, and give you some paths to getting it.Read More
Romantic fantasies sound great in theory, but in practice, they can be pretty harmful, especially if you’re a woman. It’s complicated, but when you look at the research, plenty of data supports the danger of being a die-hard romantic.Read More
Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.
I believe that telling our stories is a powerful act that lets us connect to each other.
These are my stories about relationships, sex, kink, psychology, life... pretty much everything.
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