Romantic fantasies sound great in theory, but in practice, they can be pretty harmful, especially if you’re a woman. It’s complicated, but when you look at the research, plenty of data supports the danger of being a die-hard romantic.Read More
This week: gender and emotion expression, respect as the cornerstone of relationships, and yet another study linking marriage and health. All right, I’m catching up with my reading and newsletters this week as I close yet another two intense weeks of classes followed by two exams. Two weeks left, then a little vacation, then another 4-week course, then a month off (with a week in Montréal) before IT ALL STARTS OVER AGAIN. Not sure if I should weep. Anyway. On to my suggestions. Are women more expressive than men? Not exactly. New crowdsourced and machine-coded research shows that women...Read More
You don’t want to be poly? Excellent! You totally don’t have to. Really. It’s up to you.Read More
Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.
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