Author: Ani

Sex Without Connection Sucks

Let’s talk about sex, baby… Let’s talk about why we have it, reasons not to have it, and how to be more aware and deliberate and emotionally safe around sexual encounters.

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A Righteous Anger

Anger is not always a negative emotion. It’s a red alert that something is wrong in our life and relationships. But what happens if we are unable to get angry at an injustice? Should we force anger out when calm means stagnation rather than moving forward?

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Meet Ani…

Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.

I believe that telling our stories is a powerful act that lets us connect to each other.

These are my stories about relationships, sex, kink, psychology, life... pretty much everything.

Thoughts? Feelings? Words to tell me?Send me an email

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