A reader question leads to a discussion of one of the fundamental issues with kink: making the difference between abuse and BDSM.Read More
New research shows that classical conditioning (think Pavlov’s dog) can help us fall back in love with our partners.Read More
A reader wonders if they can make their boyfriend a little more open to experiment sexually.Read More
It’s September! And with back to school, you get new books… And I have two to give away!Read More
Hi! I'm Ani: a kinky feminist, chronic oversharer, essayist and eternal student.
I believe that telling our stories is a powerful act that lets us connect to each other.
These are my stories about relationships, sex, kink, psychology, life... pretty much everything.
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